Thanks jaclaz for your recommendation for using the partnew command, however that ended up messing my partition table up and the flash drive was no longer recongnized . That pointed me to the --in-situ command which I have now put in place of partnew and it works just as great, I got Bartpe and Vistape booting just fine!
I re-read ilko's post about rebuilding the ubcd.iso with the grub4dos components, replaced menus and removed isolinux & syslinux and what not and fixed my menu.lst exactly to ilko's post.
I can't figure it out as I deleted the isolinux folder, is there anything I need to change in the boot folder on the root of the iso?
No you did not.
Did you edit the existing .iso with some tool?
Or you actually followed ilko's post and REBUILT the .iso from scratch with this mkisofs command?
mkisofs -R -b grldr -no-emul-boot -boot-load-size 4 -allow-lowercase -o ubcd411.iso d:\ubcd411
What the heck is the (hd0,4) in your screenshot?